Shaadi

Mehru asked 5 years ago

AoA… i want to ask. I kno a guy studing wid me frm 5 years. Kno him well. He was intrstd in marryng me. N he was really determined and blvd me. He was confident abt his dscn of marryng me. Bt eventually he realize dat his family is nt lettng him do so. Dy keep of tauntng n threatning him dat if he dz so dy ll break all rltns wid him. N all of sudden dy took him to sm peer alim who said “kh ye flan larki tm pay taweez krati hai k tm apnay ghar walon say laro aur us say shadi karo usnay tmhain apnay pechay lgaya wa hai” n he blvd him.
Allah knows well dat i never ever did such thing in my lyf. Karna to door k bat hai meri koi intention b kbi aj tak nai rahi itnay saal mai k kisi ko uski fam say alag kar k ye karna hai to wo karna hai.
Bt kya ye karna sahi hai kisi pay itna bara ilzam lgana? Widout prof?
N ab wo larka khta hai k mai to 5 saal say taweez k wja say tmharay sath tha. Mjy apna ghar daikhna hai bla bla. Ye dhoka nai hai to kya hai??
Allah pak kya ese logon ko maaf kar dain gy?? Despite his parents kno v well dat i belong to a good family i hv good chractr bt dy just want him to gt married wid choice of dere own. Dy kno frm 3 years dat he is intrstd in marryng me. Bt dy keep on ignorning n making such alim peers typ exkuzes.

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Admin Staff answered 5 years ago

walikum asalam,
sister islam main aisay kisi relation ki gunjayish nahi hai aur agar ap nay ghalti kar bhi di thi to shadi hi aik aisi cheez hai jo islam main allow hai. ab agar larka mukar rha hai aur peer nay usay taweez etc ka kaha hai to iska gunah peer par bhi hai aur larkay par bhi kioke wo bila waja ilzaam laga rha hai.
so ap ALLAH say gunahoon ki maafi mangti rhain aur deen ki tarf roojoo kar lain. aajkal kay logon ka aur peeron ka haal sab daikh rhay hain. deen say dunia kamai ja rhi hai aur aisay log bhut badbakht hai.
ap ALLAH par bharosa rkhain wo apkeliye naik sabab paida farma day ga kiuke ALLAH ghafoor u raheem hai
regards!
Admin

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