I have an affair with a guy and about to get married next year inshallah.. but I am alhehadess and he is deoband and now we have may arguments on basis of that …I thing his way of practice is not up to the sunnat and he follows many bid’ats ..now I am afraid of marrying him bcoz I want my spouse in jannat also …when I try to explain or convence him with my dalees he don’t listen …what should I do should I Marry him or not plz help me