Assalam-O-Alaikum. Mera aap sy yeh sawal hai k kesi aurat sy shadi ki jae or yeh kese maloom hoga k apki kesi aurat sy shadi honay lagi hai? voh kese kirdar ki malik hai? kya aap us k sath achi zindagi guzar sakty hain ya nahi. achi zindagi sirf 1 k achy hony sy achi nhi guzar sakti to is baray main kya kia ja sakta hai?
Wa alaikum assalam.
In Islam, marriage is considered a sacred bond between a man and a woman, and it is encouraged to make this decision based on piety, character, and compatibility. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “A woman may be married for four things: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religious commitment. Choose the one who is religiously committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).” (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
Therefore, it is important to look for a spouse who has good character, is pious and religious, and shares similar values and goals. This can be done through getting to know the person, spending time with them, and seeking advice and guidance from family and trusted individuals.
It is also important to pray to Allah (SWT) for guidance and make istikhara (seeking guidance through prayer) before making any major decisions, including marriage. Allah (SWT) says in the Quran, “And seek help through patience and prayer, and indeed, it is difficult except for the humbly submissive [to Allah].” (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:45)
Ultimately, it is Allah (SWT) who knows what is best for us, and we should trust in His plan and guidance.